divorce, kid, marriage

When talking is not a solution in marriage after kid.

Often some marriages go through a phase when talking is not a solution. A friend of mine went through divorce after her delivery only because she was unable to handle pressure. With the new member addition to the family our life often takes a back seat.

With my experience I can say giving time to the partner is very important. After my delivery I was fully involved with my baby and whatever time I use to get other than this either I use to sleep or do household works. Me and my husband was very happy with everything but I lost my best friend in him. There started fights and silence zone in my house which never happened in last nine years of my marriage.

I realised although we both are giving 100% to the baby but we are not giving time to each other.  Very important is that you don’t forget each other. Life will move on with many things but partner and his feelings are very important. I saved my marriage by fixing this very soon.

  • In some cases we are too late to handle this and talking to don’t help. In that case take help of friends and family. Talk to them and ask them how can they help. Ask them if they can keep your baby for some hours so that you can go out and give time to each other.
  • Cook for each other, help in household work. Share the responsibilities. Many thing you can do together which not only give you some time together but also will help you in strong bounding.
  • Most important is give importance to each other. Make them feel special.
  • Get out to some romantic destination if possible or some favorite place of yours.

If you guys still love each other and think time will solve this don’t be panic and enjoy the phase.

 

 

 

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